So I don't know if anyone has noticed, but our sweet McBaby's head shape seemed a bit..."off"...
Where do I begin??
*It all started at McKenna's 4 month check up:
Me: McKenna's head shape concerns me.
Doc: It's a little flat. Let's see how it changes over the next couple months.
Me: Ok.
*At McKenna's 6 month check up:
Me: Her head shape still looks weird to me.
Doc: It's still a little flat. Let me refer you to a plastic surgeon.
Me: Thanks.
(This is kind of how the conversations went. :))
So we went to the plastic surgeon and he tells us she's quite flat and would definitely benefit from a molding helmet (which is just what we expected). He explained to us that if her head shape hasn't fixed itself by now it probably won't. So, he refers us to a prostheics office where they did a laser scan of McKenna's head and gave us a severity rating of 3.5-4 (based on a scale of 1-5; 5 being the worst). So we decided to move forward with the treatment and get her head "fixed." They made a custom fit helmet that is "tight" in the spots we don't want her head to grow bigger in, and it's open where we do want to head to grow and fill in. Here are some bullet points of our thoughts and maybe some FAQs you may have:
- Do we feel like "bad parents" for not doing as much tummy time and repositioning as we maybe should have? Uh- maybe don't ask that...
- Insurance does NOT cover this treatment because it's considered purely cosmetic. We are calling this her very expensive princess crown! :)
- Are we vain to want it fixed or just good parents to want to give her as much of a chance of normalcy later in life as possible? You can decide.
- We're slowly working up to getting her to wear it 23 hours a day for the next 2-3 months.
- The helmet cannot get wet, aka- take it off for baths and swimming.
- We must wash her hair everyday, and wipe the helmet out with rubbing alcohol daily.
- If McKenna ever gets a fever we stop using the helmet until she returns to full health.
- She will sweat a lot at first until her body acclimates to having something cover her head all the time.
- Limit outside time during the hot summer months because she may overheat.
- Her first adjustment will be after 5 weeks of wearing it. They will track progress by doing another laser scan and comparing her symmetry numbers from the first scan.
Here are a few "before" pictures of her head. It's hard to see just how asymmetrical it is unless you see her in person. But it was worth a shot.
They put a nylon cap over her head to do the laser scan so her hair wouldn't get in the way. Super cute!
Here she is at her first fitting. I couldn't stop giggling after the doctor first put it on her.
Not so sure...
To make sure people still know she's a girl, I put a piece of velcro on the helmet so I can rotate bows onto it.
Side shots
Back- holes for ventilation.
She's getting used to it and is still a happy girl! She's our little storm trooper, lego person hair, whatever you want to call it. She is still darling to us!
ALSO- In other McKenna news, the same day she got her "princess crown," she cut her first tooth! It was her bottom left incisor and we had no idea it was coming. Now that we're paying more attention to her mouth, I'm pretty the sure the bottom right incisor will follow shortly. We'll get a picture when they come up a little farther.
20 comments:
I love the "princess crown!" She looks so cute!
Oh my GOSH she is the cutest thing ever! and the crown is adorable ! I always love it when I see little kids with helmets on! I promise it's not the end of the world. she is too dang cute for it to be anyways! Yeah for Mcbaby!
She is seriously still the cutest baby ever! I love those bows. I think you guys made the right choice for sure. I was really surprised to read that it's not covered and is purely cosmetic?? I would think it's best to have a symetrical head. They're always trying to save themselves from paying out!
she's still cuter than ever....and i would've opted to get it "fixed" too, you just never know if it would cause problems later on (maybe she'd get mad that she can't find a hat to fit when she's older if you didn't get it fixed? ;) )
She makes that helmet look so super cute!! What a beautiful girl!! She really is such a cute little girl!! I also think you guys made the right choice. You guys as parents knew what you had to do for your daughter and you did it and you will be blessed for it!!
Good luck with the treatment. I hope that all goes well. I love the bow idea! So Cute!
I can't believe insurance doesn't cover it! I think it could be argued this is a birth defect (though obviously not a life-threatening one) and taking care of it—making her perfect!—should totally be covered. Harrumph. But I'd have done it, too, absolutely. Are we not all a little vain in behalf of our children? Why else would we get them braces and acne cream and flattering clothes? We want people to look at them and see someone as beautiful as they really are. I think you did the right thing, absolutely.
And I totally don't judge you about tummy time. I guarantee you gave her more tummy time than I ever gave my kids. You didn't cause this, sweetie.
Glad she's still happy!!
BTW, wish you could have come camping.
Oh my goodness...she pulls of the helmet better than anyone could! She's beautiful in anything. And I LOVE the velcro bows!
No you aren't bad parents and you are doing the right thing. Justin and I think it looks like sparring gear. She is ready for the fight :) And, she still looks beautiful! Love the velcro!
Fantastic idea with the ribbon! She forsurely looks like a girl without it, but it's a super cute addition!
who knew a helmet could look so good! she is super cute! i wish i could just squeeze those little cheeks!!
found your blog :) she's still adorable. What a cute little lego
What a cute little girl....and may I say...what great parents you are. Jes's neice also had a princess crown and so did my good friend's little boy (but they didn't call it a princess crown!!!). It is a hard thing to deal with as a parent and it seems like you two are handling it so well! Hopefully she won't be in it for too long - especially with summer coming up. Hang in there!
and she is still as gorgeous as ever :) you are amazing parents ... don't blame yourself one bit.
Lego definetely! And, I love it! That's the cutest little big Lego Pincess I've ever seen!
Laura and Dan, All the helmet does is make her cute little face stand out even more. All you see is big, beautiful eyes, teeny, tiny nose, and kissable cheeks and pouty lips. What more could a baby model want? Oh, yeah. A bow on her head. Ta Da! You Guys Are The Greatest! (And, you needn't worry about the tummy time. Her stomach wasn't developed enough to handle it anyway. That's why she was on the baby zantac, remember? Choking to death is just no fun. I'd rather she have to wear a helmet for a while, you know?) Love Ya! Mom & Dad T.
The bow idea is genious! Happy Anniversary
Hehe! The bow thing is hilarious and SUPER cute! What a great idea!
I'm LOVING that new pic at the top of your blog, btw.
You guys are AMAZING, ADORABLE parents. And i think it is cool you are doing that for her. She looks so cute. and honestly...i love the bows!
Oh for love! I LOVE that you put Velcro on her princess helmet. So appropriate :)
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